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My Wife, Sandra

Created on: 03/30/13 07:42 AM Views: 2120 Replies: 4
My Wife, Sandra
Posted Saturday, March 30, 2013 07:42 AM

Even though I have not been in the conversations, I read them all.  I lost my wife on the 28 of March. This is a difficult time for me.   I need your thoughts and prayers during this time.  Thank you.

 

Dave

 
RE: My Wife, Sandra
Posted Saturday, March 30, 2013 05:13 PM

Dave, 

Thoughts and prayers coming to you during this hard time.  May warm memories help ease your grief.

Sincerely,

Fidele

 
RE: My Wife, Sandra
Posted Monday, April 1, 2013 03:02 PM

So sorry for your loss Dave.  My thoughts are with you.

Stan Tucker

Ole Stan Tucker

 
RE: My Wife, Sandra
Posted Tuesday, April 2, 2013 09:49 AM

Thank you all for your thoughts.  It helps.  Sorry I can't write more at this time, but know I feel your thoughts.

 

Thank You

 
RE: My Wife, Sandra
Posted Monday, May 6, 2013 09:53 PM

Hey David , I'm very sorry for your loss . I lost my first wife a few years after the 23 1/2 year reunion ... 1986 . I pretty much know how you feel . I was told a long time ago that loosing a spouse is not something you get over ...you just get used to it . The quicker you get through the greiving process the quicker you can remember her with love and not cry yourself to sleep . Dont dwell on the passing , she would not want to cause you pain. Remember with fondness , the good times . Most of the pain comes with "survivors' guilt " The feeling that you could have done something more . The truth is that I would have gladly taken my wife's place so that she could have the memories that I have since ... the birth of the twin grandchildren their sister ... the birth of my great grandson etc , etc, etc. That was not an option so we have to live with the situation that we have and live life to it's fullest  ...this is not practice . Good luck and God bless , Cliff

 

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